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Shouldn’t I Be More Confident at This Age?

Do you ever wish you could tap back into the 20-year old you and navigate life with the carefree confidence you did then?

Ever wonder what the heck is wrong with you? Should’t I be more confident at this stage of life?

You’re not alone and you’re not crazy.

It is harder. All those decades of experience may serve you in some ways, but they’ve also…

  • Made you more risk-adverse – eroding your confidence.
  • Altered what you believe is possible, practical or reasonable. It’s no wonder you’re limiting your possibilities!
  • Added a level of urgency, making you feel that there’s no time to make mistakes. You tell yourself “I’ve got to get this right, time is short.”

“Confidence is the surprising side effect of getting out of your head and into action.”

Here’s the deal… You form an opinion of yourself the same way you form an opinion of others. By seeing yourself ⎻ and them ⎻ in action.

When you see yourself hesitating, making excuses, living fearfully,… not acting on what you want or believe, your sense of self diminishes and your self-trust erodes.

And when you see yourself taking action (like I did today, beginning work on my new website) you will learn, begin to trust yourself, cultivate agency… and bit-by-bit see yourself more confidently.

In fact, your identity literally changes. You’ll go from being the person that WANTS TO DO something, to BEING THE PERSON THAT IS.

Take a step, any step. And soon you’ll see yourself more fully, as the capable human that you already are.